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7 Ways To Say โNoโ To Your Team and Still Be Supportive
Posted on 9th October 2023

๐ Youโre a great leader, and you care about your team, so when they knock at your door, you want to be open, supportive, and empowering.
Thatโs why quite often you end up saying โyesโ when youโre already overwhelmed enough ๐ โโ๏ธ .
Hereโs how ๐ ๏ธ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐๐ผ๐ถ๐ฑ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ด๐๐ถ๐น๐๐, ๐๐ป๐๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ, ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐๐ผ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด:
โ ๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ด๐ฒ their request and ๐๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฒ their input.
โ ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ genuine ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ for their trust in you.
โ Clarify ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐ and set clear ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐.
โ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ about your workload and capacity.
โ Offer ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ or resources.
โ Focus on ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ผ๐ฝ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐, coach, and mentor them.
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๐๐ผ๐น๐น๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฝ to provide support and encouragement.
By ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด "๐ป๐ผ" now only you show you ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐ and ๐ณ๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐, but you also become a great role model they will mirror.
โHow often have you said โyesโ while you meant โnoโ because you didnโt want to be perceived as a selfish leader?
(P.S. if this happens too often in your private life as well, ask yourself: โBy saying yes to all this, what am I saying no toโ โ Thatโs a powerful one!)