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#BrainFactMonday โ Should You Stop Saying You’re Lucky?
Posted on 6th November 2023

A while back, I launched a poll right here on Linkedin with a simple question: what do you tend to say most often: "๐'๐บ ๐น๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐" or "๐'๐บ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ณ๐๐น"?
I was pleased to see that the majority of people said "I'm grateful" ๐
Many of us use the terms "lucky" and "grateful" interchangeably, believing they express similar sentiments. However, our brain processes these two phrases differently, and it has a significant impact on our overall well-being. In this #BrainFactMonday we look at ๐ง The Neuroscience of Gratitude vs. Luck ๐
1๏ธโฃ "๐'๐บ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐" - ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐
When you say, "I'm lucky," you tend to attribute your successes or positive experiences to chance, fate, or external factors beyond your control. This mindset can unintentionally ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐บ, as it implies that your achievements aren't a result of your efforts or abilities.
2๏ธโฃ "๐'๐บ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ณ๐๐น" - ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐
When you say, "I'm grateful," it shifts the focus inward. It acknowledges the positive aspects of your life and highlights your appreciation for them. This mindset encourages you to recognize the people, opportunities, and experiences that have contributed to your well-being/success/achievements, empowering you and suggesting you are an active participant in ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐.
Neuroscientific studies have shown that practising gratitude has several positive effects on our brains and lives. When you cultivate a gratitude mindset:
๐ง Your brain releases dopamine and serotonin, enhancing your mood and overall well-being.
๐ช It reduces stress, anxiety, and depression.
๐ฑ It fosters resilience and strengthens your ability to cope with challenges.
๐ It improves relationships by enhancing empathy and compassion.
So, while the words "lucky" and "grateful" may appear to be similar, they influence your neural pathways and thought patterns differently. By choosing to be grateful, you ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ and, in turn, create a more positive and fulfilling life.
So, from now on, make a conscious effort to cultivate gratitude in your daily life. Whether it's in your career or personal relationships, the power of "I'm grateful" is a small shift in language with a profound impact on your brain and, ultimately, your life. Tried and tested it... believe me ๐