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Defying Limits: Embracing The Absurd And Proving The Mass Wrong In Life And Career
Posted on 16th November 2022

They said "๐๐'๐ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ" ๐ when...
โถ๏ธ ...at 15 I decided to stand against ๐ป๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐ฐ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ abuse and live on my own terms. I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 21 I decided to buy a ๐๐บ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐ณ๐น๐ฎ๐ to start a healthier life on my own, with no family behind, no guarantor and no savings. I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 27 I decided to ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ in Contemporary History while working full-time. I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 35 I decided to ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐บ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฟ entirely while moving to London with a pretty embarrassing English. I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 38 I decided to ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐บ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐ฏ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ with zero entrepreneurial experience. I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 41 I decided to ๐น๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐บ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐ฑ, despite being the most expensive area (Chelsea) in the most expensive city in the world (London). I proved them wrong.
โถ๏ธ ...at 44 I decided to ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐บ๐ ๐ฏ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐น and work directly with Fortune 100 companies despite me having zero sales skills. Again, I proved them wrong ๐.
How do I consistently prove the mass wrong (and have a lot of fun doing it)?
โข Investing quality time in getting to know myself
โข Trusting what I feel vs what society thinks is right for me
โข Using my values and emotions as a compass in life
Bottom line: Pursuing the "absurd" is much more fun than living within someone else's limitations
โข You are the source of your own strengths and motivation. Look at your past experiences and celebrate each time you aimed at the "absurd" and won, and turn it into fuel for future "absurd" goals.
So now I'm curious: when did you prove the mass wrong in your life/career? What helped you achieve your "absurd" goal?