If you're stuck in between these "what ifs" it's because you miss one single piece of information. If you had it, you'd have stopped working like a Human Doing long ago and would now live like a Human Being again!

When you're stuck in a soul-sucking job, it's your kids who pay the biggest price of you being drained at the end of every-single-day 🙈.

Worse than that, they're internalising a sick mental model of what "work" is supposed to feel and look like and are likely to replicate it as adults 😨.

That's the last thing you want, but between now and the solution there are a lot of "𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗳..."

⛔ ...my unfulfillment has nothing to so with the career, and there's something wrong with me?

⛔ ...I change and feel the same/worse?

⛔ ...I won't persuade any employer to give me a chance without experience, AND a good salary?

⛔ ...I won't find my calling and, even if I do, is not financially sustainable?

⛔ ...a new path requires extensive retraining?

⛔ ...a change makes me lose money/reputation/status and generate a giant gap in my CV?

⛔ ...I make mistakes and waste time/money/energy?

All these "what ifs" are legitimate AND are 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲 questions/doubts/fears everyone else who made a big change faced. Except that it didn't stop them, and neither should you because they are NOT BLOCKING OBSTACLES. All you need to know to dissolve them is this word: PROCESS.

You don't have to figure everything out on your own - there is a clear, proven, evidence-led, action-oriented and neuroscience-based framework that guides you step by step so nothing is left to the unknown.

But of course, if you don't know there's a process, you feel lost.

So here are the 4 steps you need to follow to 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗗𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻:

1️⃣ Rediscover who you are and how you function

2️⃣ Increase your confidence, change your disempowering beliefs

3️⃣ Find your element, where the "doing" honours/leverages/makes the best use of your "being"

4️⃣ Make the change, and transit safely with proven, alternative job-hunting strategies

Nothing is left to the unknown here, the evidence is king and it underpins the whole journey.

Keep in mind that the key to feeling alive at work, and regenerating your energy throughout the day, is 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗘𝗫𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡. That's why the process starts with YOU.

Rediscover who you are today and how you function, then turn that into a compass that shows you what's your element and use alternative job-hunting strategies to prove your worth.

🚫 Don't embark on a significant change or career pivot without following a proven PROCESS, it rarely works.

👌You're here on this planet to feel alive, your only mission is to honour that.

Teach your kids that yes, work is supposed to make you feel alive by making the best use of who you are. They deserve to believe in that.

Enjoy the journey! 💪